You’re asking large amount of concerns that probably don’t have any solution. Or, at the very least they will have a remedy that won’t assist you to.
It lets you know one thing exactly how much your wife promises to respect the parenting plan later on. While I’m maybe maybe not suggesting if she“selectively follows” parts of it moving forward that she will consistently ignore your agreement, I wouldn’t be surprised. It is best to speak to your attorney about this now so you both follow the most important provisions of your parenting plan moving forward that you can see what your options are for making sure.