I agree to you, 100%. And I appreciate you breaking this situation down – so eloquently – while not Barb that is putting down.
(component 2) in reality, i would suggest one more thing the OP will maybe not do also, while he gone 1 day, pack up your s**t (at the very least a number of it) and remain at a buddies for few to a couple times and leave a note that claims, “Now you have got all enough time you should be on Match.com” — that sort of wakening calll, the sort of GAME CHANGER is really what he requires.
In the event that you simply (TRY) and split up with him, he’ll provide you with a million reasons never to and you’ll stay.
A few nights away — and denied the REAL THING — will sober him right up.