In identical vein, itвЂ™s your partnerвЂ™s obligation to be clear to you about whether her terms are exactly the same: does she desire to spend that enough time to you, to own that amount of closeness with you? Or would she choose a relationship which involves periodic, however constant, regular closeness? (Some might explain this as being a вЂњsecondaryвЂќ relationship.) ItвЂ™s okay on her to desire less closeness, but then she owes it to you to be honest about that if thatвЂ™s the case.
Then it is likely time to make some difficult decisions, Lonely Girl if it turns out that your relationship terms donвЂ™t match up to your partnerвЂ™s, or if she says that they do, but her behaviour still doesnвЂ™t change.