As always, Apollonia, you strike the nail in the head in practical terms which can be direct, succinct and therefore any man can relate with. About the regularity of calling or texting, I think moderation is key, nevertheless the SUBSTANCE of said communications is really what can many accurately advance the progress in a relationship.
I’m also able to relate with your point from the significance of having and keeping a feeling of function. A lady can easily improve the good characteristics in a person, however the notion that a female will make or BREAK a guy’s life and happiness is a unjust expectation if i really do not need personal method of creating possibilities for pleasure and satisfaction within myself. I will be seeing for myself that self-respect is key right here – and I also do not suggest in a narcissistic way, rather, understanding how to recognize all of that i need to provide and infusing that self-love into the partnership. I discovered lot about this in your site on modifications to help make to advertise self-care.
Finally, Abe, you have got absolutely nothing to feel ashamed of; perhaps not yet having a girlfriend doesn’t mean that you will be perhaps maybe not designed to share significant love with this someone that is special.